How can people be faithful to a someone they do not love?

When you are with someone you do not love, but still remain faithful to, there are some main reasons and / or some secondary. I call them that because the main ones are enough even one, while the secondary ones must be more so as to “weight” as a main one.

In general, fidelity is a “gift” so to speak, which we categorize in several ways:

- The gift “won” — the other person sees in you everything he needs; he simply does not need to look for or find something else elsewhere. It is a “gift” quite rare, but I like to think it exists

- The “desired” gift — is the most common, there are quite a few relationships in which partners cheat, frequently or accidentally. Then fidelity becomes desirable. There is a saying: “A person who does not cheat does it because he/she did not have the right opportunity.”

- The “forced” gift — usually comes from people who are loyal but do not love that person

We’ll talk a little bit about that “forced” gift. This type of fidelity is most often found in people who stay with someone even though they do not love that person. Why do I call it forced? Because although for the other person fidelity may not be the most important quality, instead for one person that category of people, it becomes the most important thing. Why…